How to Train Your Dog to Walk Beside You?

Understanding your puppy's mindset goes a long way. Here are easy-to-follow steps for training your pet to walk comfortably beside you. You’ll also discover the small adjustments that can instantly improve your walks.

These aren't just ideas that sound nice. They're practical tips that hold up outside, where sidewalks are busy, and distractions are everywhere.

Start Here: Gear That Sets You Both Up for Success

If you’re using tools that work against you, even the best training plan is going to feel like an uphill climb. The right pet leash, dog harness, and rewards can make your dog’s learning curve a whole lot smoother. And your walks? Way more enjoyable.

The leash: Skip the retractable

Retractable leashes might seem convenient. But when you’re training your dog to stay close, they do more harm than good. They teach your dog that pulling equals more freedom. Which is the opposite of what you want.

Instead, go for a standard leash like Buckle-Down Dog Leash - MARVEL Red Brick Logo Red/White. Four to six feet is the sweet spot. It gives you enough control without being restrictive.

The dog collar vs harness question

If your puppy tends to pull, a front-clip harness is usually the better choice. It redirects their energy without putting pressure on their neck. That said, if you’re sticking with a collar, keep it basic. Flat and well-fitted. No prongs, no chokes, those tools don’t belong in this kind of training.

You want your dog focused and calm, not stressed or confused.

Don’t forget the treats

Dog training without rewards is like trying to learn a new language with no feedback.

Bring treats your dog cares about, think chicken, cheese, or whatever makes their tail twitch. If food’s not their thing, a favorite toy can work too.

The Core Dog Training: Teaching Your Dog to Walk Beside You

You've probably watched dogs trotting happily beside their owners, wondering how they managed it. How do you leash train a dog? The truth is, it doesn't just happen. It’s all about simple steps, repetition, and a bit of patience.

Step 1 – Pick your side and stick to it

First things first, choose a side for your dog to walk on. Left or right, it doesn't matter. Just pick one and stick with it.

Dogs love predictability. They thrive on it. If you’re constantly switching sides, your dog won't understand where they're supposed to be.

Pick your spot, make it clear, and your dog will quickly learn this is their position.

Step 2 – Reward position, not pulling

Here’s the trick most people miss: you need to show your dog exactly what you want.

When your dog is walking next to you (on your chosen side), reward them. A quick "yes," followed by a treat, works well. Do it often at first. Think every few steps. Sounds like a lot? It is but only at first. The goal here is simple: you're making it obvious to your dog where the "good spot" is.

Dogs repeat what gets rewarded. Keep rewarding, and your dog will keep repeating.

Step 3 – Use the “Stop and Go” method

Your dog will pull. It's going to happen. Especially at first. When your dog starts pulling ahead, stop walking. Just freeze in place. Don't jerk the leash. Don't yell or scold. Just wait.

Eventually, your dog will look back at you, wondering what's going on. They might step back a bit or at least loosen the tension on the leash. That's your cue. Now you can start moving again.

This step tests your patience, especially the first few times. But dogs are smart. They'll realize that pulling gets them nowhere fast. Stay consistent with this step, and pulling becomes pointless in your dog’s eyes.

Step 4 – Practice turns

Have you ever noticed your dog zoning out, completely ignoring you? It happens to everyone. Turns can help with this. When you change direction often, your dog needs to pay attention. This keeps their focus on you, not everything else around them.

Try a simple figure-8 or zig-zag pattern. Start in a low-distraction area, maybe your yard or driveway. Walk a few steps, then calmly change direction. Reward your dog whenever they stick close and follow your lead.

This exercise isn’t about confusing your dog. It’s about showing them that paying attention to you pays off.

Step 5 – Add a cue (optional)

This step isn't essential, but it's helpful. Especially if you'd like your dog to understand exactly what you're asking.

Pick a simple cue like "Let’s go" or "Walk with me." Say it clearly, right before you start moving forward. Dogs are quick learners. Soon enough, hearing your cue signals your dog that it's time to stay by your side.

A good cue gives your dog a heads-up about what’s expected. It takes some of the guesswork out of the training. And it gives you an easy way to communicate clearly during your walks. 

Related: The 7 Essential Steps to Successfully Leash Train Your Dog

Common Pitfalls That Sabotage Progress

• You’re walking too far too soon. Longer isn’t always better. In fact, long walks when your dog is still learning often lead to frustration. Your dog loses focus, you get annoyed, and everyone heads home discouraged. Instead, keep sessions short, five to ten minutes is plenty. Quality beats quantity every time.
• You’re skipping rewards too early. Treats aren’t forever, but don’t rush to phase them out either. Pet owners often think their dog has mastered walking after a few sessions. So they stop rewarding altogether. Big mistake. Dogs need consistent positive reinforcement to make behaviors stick. Gradually reduce rewards, spacing them further apart as your dog improves.
• You’re training in the middle of chaos. Trying to teach leash manners in a crowded park full of distractions? Good luck with that. Start somewhere quiet first—like your backyard. Then move to a quiet street, and eventually sidewalks with some distractions. Build slowly towards busier areas. Your dog will be far more successful, and you’ll both avoid frustration.

Avoiding these common mistakes keeps your training sessions stress-free and productive.

Tips for Real-Life Walking Scenarios

Training your dog in the backyard is one thing. Real-life walks? They’re a different story altogether. Here’s how to handle the everyday challenges you’ll face.

Walking past distractions (dogs, people, squirrels)

Distractions happen every walk. A dog across the street. Kids running by. And yes, squirrels.

To keep your dog focused, try using the “watch me” cue. Or offer a series of rapid-fire treats to hold their attention.

If things get tricky, calmly move aside. Create a bit of distance between you and the distraction. Even a few feet can help your dog stay calm.

Leash manners for multi-dog households

Two dogs can mean double the pulling. But there’s an easy fix for this.

Start by training each dog separately. Let them learn the basics one-on-one. Once they’re reliable individually, try walking them together. Take it slow. Short sessions at first, gradually extending the time as they get comfortable.

What to do when your dog forgets everything

Sometimes your dog acts like you’ve never taught them anything. It happens. Don’t panic.

Just stop walking for a second. Take a breath. Wait quietly until your dog settles down. Reset. Remind them of the basics. Then continue your walk as if nothing happened. Your dog will catch on again quickly.

Every Dog Learns at Their Own Pace

Some dogs pick it up in a few days. Others take a few weeks. Both are normal. It’s easy to get discouraged when progress feels slow. Especially if your dog seems more interested in sniffing lampposts than staying by your side. But here’s the thing—progress isn’t always obvious.

If your dog walked beside you for five seconds today, that counts. That’s a win. Dog training isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up consistently. Little by little, those short wins stack up into real progress.

So don’t stress if things don’t click right away. Keep your sessions short. Stick with what’s working. And be patient, your dog’s trying.